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SEVEN men stood singing a medieval hymn in a moonlit chapel here on a recent Sunday night. The Rev. Benedict J. Groeschel, disabled since a near fatal bus accident three years ago, sat with his cane by his side, and led the group in prayer. \u201cWatch over me during this night,\u201d he read.<\/p>\n
The men had gathered at the Trinity Retreat House, operated by the Roman Catholic Archdiocese of New York as a place for clergy to study and pray. Father Groeschel, a 73-year-old friar who wears a gray habit, has been praying in this simple chapel for 33 years. When he was younger he would sometimes pray all night here. <\/p>\n
\u201cI wanted to live in the South Bronx with the poor,\u201d said Father Groeschel, who teaches pastoral psychology at St. Joseph\u2019s Seminary in Yonkers, \u201cbut I couldn\u2019t say no when Cardinal Cooke asked me to head the Office of Spiritual Development here.\u201d<\/p>\n
Father Groeschel lives in a converted garage next to the retreat house, in a cell-like bedroom that looks out on the Long Island Sound. Beneath his long white beard and kind demeanor is a wise-cracking, street-smart Jersey boy who is unafraid of ruffling feathers. He preaches orthodox Catholicism in the retreats he leads around the world, on his popular show on the Catholic cable network, and in the three dozen religious books he has written \u2014 forums in which he is well known for outspoken attacks on hypocrisy, bureaucratic complacency and the news media.<\/p>\n
In his book \u201cFrom Scandal to Hope,\u201d about the sex abuse scandal in the Catholic Church, he calls the coverage in The Boston Globe, The New York Times and The San Francisco Chronicle anti-Catholic and unfair. He questions why Catholic priests were singled out over clergy of other denominations who may have committed sexual improprieties and says that many of the allegations were ambiguous or unsubstantiated. \u201cSeldom in the history of journalism have I seen such virulent attacks on any institution that is supposed to receive fair treatment in the press,\u201d he writes.<\/p>\n
Father Groeschel was particularly incensed by criticism leveled at Pope John Paul II<\/span><\/a>, whose strict faith inspired Father Groeschel and seven colleagues to break away from the Capuchin order of friars and form a new religious order in 1987. The order, the Franciscan Friars and Sisters of the Renewal, now has 135 members, who dedicate their lives to serving the poor. \u201cLove the poor and your life will be filled with sunlight and you will not be afraid in the hour of your death\u201d is one of Father Groeschel\u2019s favorite quotations from St. Vincent de Paul.<\/p>\n The Trinity Retreat House was in the news last August when the archdiocese decided to place priests there who had been accused of sexual abuse. The plan was scuttled when nearby residents complained. After the one priest who was sent to the retreat house left, Father Groeschel held a holiday open house for his neighbors in this wealthy waterfront enclave, many of whom had never met him before. <\/p>\n Father Groeschel first came to Westchester in 1960 to be chaplain at the Children\u2019s Village, a home for troubled boys, in Dobbs Ferry. He immediately became involved in an ecumenical group working to support civil rights. <\/p>\n \u201cProbably the most beautiful and moving thing I\u2019ve been involved in was the civil rights movement,\u201d he said. \u201cIt was the most interesting and creative period of my life.\u201d <\/p>\n Father Groeschel and a rabbi in Croton-on-Hudson had raised the money to buy the blue station wagon that Michael Schwerner was driving when he, James Chaney and Andrew Goodman were kidnapped and later killed by the Ku Klux Klan<\/span><\/a> in Mississippi in 1964. <\/p>\n Father Groeschel remembers going to a civil rights march with his friend Nate Schwerner, Michael\u2019s father, before the young men were found and Mr. Schwerner\u2019s saying to him, \u201cI think they are dead.\u201d<\/p>\n During his 14 years at the Children\u2019s Village, Father Groeschel got his Ph.D. in psychology from Columbia University<\/span><\/a> and became a therapist. He also taught at Fordham and worked at Manhattanville College<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\n \u201cHe had humility even as a young priest,\u201d said Valerie Moore O\u2019Keeffe, 64, the Mamaroneck town supervisor, who met Father Groeschel when she was a freshman at Manhattanville. \u201cWhen people went to confession to him, he didn\u2019t give stock answers out of a moral theology book. He was respectful of the story they were telling him.\u201d<\/p>\n